Well I probably shouldn't go into too much detail (you never know who is reading what), but if anyone wants to know all of it, then you can call me and I'll gladly let you in on everything.
Update:
I've read, re-read and re-written this post so many times. What I don't want to happen is to have my blog get Brad into trouble at work. So if anyone wants to know full details, I can email you - so sorry for the secrecy.
Brad was involved in an accident at work on Josh's birthday. Long story short, Brad was trapped in a backhoe and could have died! (details if you want them) It was very scary and I'm so thankful that he made it out alive and unharmed.
Again, long story short - Brad has been on Administrative Leave (paid) until the company could investigate and figure out what the punishment (if any) would be. Well that was 12 days ago - 7 working days. So we've been on one heck of a roller coaster of a ride. We've been stressed about the uncertainty of our future, and about not knowing what punishment was going to be dealt out. I just want to know what is going to happen. We can deal with what ever they throw at us, as long as we know what it is. If he is going to get fired, then we can deal with it - and Brad can find a new job. If he doesn't get fired, even better - but this whole hanging in limbo is just killing us.
Update:
Brad got home yesterday at about 3pm - and the final verdict is 30 days off UNPAID! Thirty days. I am still in shock. And yes, it could be worse - but that's 2 full paychecks that we'll be missing out on. Luckily we still have a lot in our savings to cover a full month of bills, groceries, car payments, gas, and still have some left over - but it's still going to be a shock.
4.28.2009
4.27.2009
Maddie is 16 months
Time is just flying by with this kiddo. She is getting some more teeth - two molars and maybe another of the front on her right side. She is definitely getting a little more of an attitude - her independence I guess I should say. She tries to be just like Josh and climb, run, and dance just like he does. I just wonder how different it would have been if she had been the first born child?
My friend, Melissa, and I have talked about this before. Madison learns almost everything, good and bad, from Josh and that's where things get tricky. Because more often than not I'm at a loss with my patience from dealing with Josh that Maddie kind of gets the short end of the stick. I find myself yelling a little more than I should and wonder if it would have been different, but that's life.
The newest things she's doing are: she freely gives hugs (to Josh especially), she gives slobbery kisses, she finally knows what waving means, she grabs her nose with her fingers when we say "pee-ew" - it's really cute. What else? She runs all over the place and is getting faster by the day. Her hair is finally starting to get longer to where I can put it in pig tails. So here is to my 16-month old.
My friend, Melissa, and I have talked about this before. Madison learns almost everything, good and bad, from Josh and that's where things get tricky. Because more often than not I'm at a loss with my patience from dealing with Josh that Maddie kind of gets the short end of the stick. I find myself yelling a little more than I should and wonder if it would have been different, but that's life.
The newest things she's doing are: she freely gives hugs (to Josh especially), she gives slobbery kisses, she finally knows what waving means, she grabs her nose with her fingers when we say "pee-ew" - it's really cute. What else? She runs all over the place and is getting faster by the day. Her hair is finally starting to get longer to where I can put it in pig tails. So here is to my 16-month old.
This and That
I figured I should probably post something, since it's been a little while since I did. It seems like we've been busy, but then again it doesn't. A lot has been going on with Brad's work, but I can't post anything on that yet - it still isn't resolved yet.
So last week we had the doctor's appointments, which I already wrote about. Josh had school on Tuesday and Thursday, which is going a lot better now that I've had a talk with his teacher. I will also have to write another post on that, because it's a REALLY long story.
Wednesday I went to get a WA state driver's license. And I hate going to the DMV, but it had to be done. It was a pain in the butt because they had me in their system under my maiden name, and it was taking some time to get things switched over. I almost had to take another test. Yikes! So now the only thing left to do is get Brad's car switched over to WA plates, and it will be complete. We'll finally be WA residents again.
Josh had bike day at school on Thursday, in which all of the kids brought their bikes, trikes, or scooters to ride. I was a little worried at first because we just got Josh a bike for his birthday and he hadn't been riding it that much before this bike day. He did get on it a couple of times, but for no longer than 10 minutes each time. He can ride in our driveway, but it's not very big - we have gravel going from the road and up to our driveway. But to my surprise (as usual), he did great. The teacher told me that he didn't get off of his bike the entire time. And when I went to go pick him up, he didn't want to leave. The other assistants had spray painted a "road" on the cement track, so the kids loved that.
Friday we spent the day with Brad's cousin and her little boy. We went to the park, which is in a perfect location - not too close to the parking lot with lots of room for the kids to run. Everyone came back to our house for lunch and then Brad's uncle and aunt stopped by as well. It was good to see them and I'm really glad that we've moved closer to family. This is what I've always wanted.
Sunday we went to Tri-Cities again to drop Brad's dad's truck off. Brad had borrowed it earlier in the week to build a workbench and pull some dead trees around the yard. It was sunny (a little windy), but nice weather and Josh didn't want to leave. Someday he'll spend the night at Grandma and Grandpa's.
Well that's all for now. This week is going to be a little busy, but hopefully not too bad. I've already accomplished vacuuming, sweeping and mopping all of the tile (quite a hefty job), dusting and doing a little laundry. I'm beat!
Mental note: post about Josh's school and Brad's job.
So last week we had the doctor's appointments, which I already wrote about. Josh had school on Tuesday and Thursday, which is going a lot better now that I've had a talk with his teacher. I will also have to write another post on that, because it's a REALLY long story.
Wednesday I went to get a WA state driver's license. And I hate going to the DMV, but it had to be done. It was a pain in the butt because they had me in their system under my maiden name, and it was taking some time to get things switched over. I almost had to take another test. Yikes! So now the only thing left to do is get Brad's car switched over to WA plates, and it will be complete. We'll finally be WA residents again.
Josh had bike day at school on Thursday, in which all of the kids brought their bikes, trikes, or scooters to ride. I was a little worried at first because we just got Josh a bike for his birthday and he hadn't been riding it that much before this bike day. He did get on it a couple of times, but for no longer than 10 minutes each time. He can ride in our driveway, but it's not very big - we have gravel going from the road and up to our driveway. But to my surprise (as usual), he did great. The teacher told me that he didn't get off of his bike the entire time. And when I went to go pick him up, he didn't want to leave. The other assistants had spray painted a "road" on the cement track, so the kids loved that.
Friday we spent the day with Brad's cousin and her little boy. We went to the park, which is in a perfect location - not too close to the parking lot with lots of room for the kids to run. Everyone came back to our house for lunch and then Brad's uncle and aunt stopped by as well. It was good to see them and I'm really glad that we've moved closer to family. This is what I've always wanted.
Sunday we went to Tri-Cities again to drop Brad's dad's truck off. Brad had borrowed it earlier in the week to build a workbench and pull some dead trees around the yard. It was sunny (a little windy), but nice weather and Josh didn't want to leave. Someday he'll spend the night at Grandma and Grandpa's.
Well that's all for now. This week is going to be a little busy, but hopefully not too bad. I've already accomplished vacuuming, sweeping and mopping all of the tile (quite a hefty job), dusting and doing a little laundry. I'm beat!
Mental note: post about Josh's school and Brad's job.
4.20.2009
Doctor's Appointments
Today we headed down to Tri-Cities because both of the kids had doctor's appointments. Maddie had her 15-month (only a month late) and Josh had his 4 year appointment. Josh is still so little, weighing in at only 30 pounds and he was 38.25 inches tall. Maddie weighed 19 lbs, 12 oz. and was 29.5 inches long. Josh weighed 19 lbs, 3.5oz at his 15-month appointment, so she is still outweighing him. Maddie had to get one shot and we had the option to do Josh's booster shots for Kindergarten or to wait until next year, and I said let's wait. Just the thought that Josh will be in Kindergarten next year blows my mind. It's so crazy, but it will be good for both of us.
After we did the doctor's appointments we headed to the park so the kids could play since it was 80 degrees outside!!! The sun was shining and it was hot. I dressed both kids in short sleeved shirts and pants, and myself the same, because I guess I just didn't believe it was going to be as hot as it was. But hot it was - I actually got a little sunburn on my arms and so did Maddie (again, not prepared). But the kids, Grandma, Brad's sister and our niece had a blast. At the park they also have this water area where they have sprinklers and spouts that shoot out water - and thankfully I packed an extra set of clothes for both kids, because they wanted to play in it and they were drenched! I wish I'd had the camera. Maddie was completely fearless - playing with kids twice her size and running through the water. It was really cute (and scary) to watch.
After that we had some lunch, went to Grandma's house to unwind a little and then we headed home. Thankfully the kids both slept most of the way home, so it worked out great. A beautiful, fun-filled day.
After we did the doctor's appointments we headed to the park so the kids could play since it was 80 degrees outside!!! The sun was shining and it was hot. I dressed both kids in short sleeved shirts and pants, and myself the same, because I guess I just didn't believe it was going to be as hot as it was. But hot it was - I actually got a little sunburn on my arms and so did Maddie (again, not prepared). But the kids, Grandma, Brad's sister and our niece had a blast. At the park they also have this water area where they have sprinklers and spouts that shoot out water - and thankfully I packed an extra set of clothes for both kids, because they wanted to play in it and they were drenched! I wish I'd had the camera. Maddie was completely fearless - playing with kids twice her size and running through the water. It was really cute (and scary) to watch.
After that we had some lunch, went to Grandma's house to unwind a little and then we headed home. Thankfully the kids both slept most of the way home, so it worked out great. A beautiful, fun-filled day.
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